Networking 101 - tips to get hired as a professional

People do judge a book by its cover, so dress appropriately for the event, and don't forget to polish those shoes, too. It's never wrong to dress professionally and wear something

that makes you feel confident. Carry business cards to dole out at the end of a conversation, provided it's to someone you truly want to connect with. If you're currently out of

work, or don't want your employer to know you're trolling for a new position, create a simple business card that has just your name and contact information. 3. SET GOALS. Make a

pact with yourself that at each gathering you'll meet three or four new people and get their contact information. Afterward, jot down notes on the back of their business cards to remind

you of where you met and what you talked about. You'll need this to jog your memory if you follow up with them at a later time. Having a strategy like this for your time keeps you

fully engaged at the event — not simply meandering around the room ricocheting from person to person, or retreating to a corner table alone to nibble on appetizers and sip club soda. 4.

ARRIVE EARLY. The best time for bantering is before the room gets crowded. This can be a little uncomfortable if you're shy, but with fewer people around, you have no choice but to

stick out your hand and smile. Plus the low noise level in the room will be more conducive to conversation. Look for someone standing alone, or sidle up to a small group of people and

introduce yourself. Offer a brief but firm handshake while making eye contact, smiling and saying your first and last name. Then, listen vigilantly for the person's name. 5. BE CURIOUS

AND LISTEN. Ask questions to get people to talk about themselves. It's subliminal, but this approach will build a positive memory of you, because who doesn't like talking about

what they do? Spend at least twice as much time listening as you do talking. If possible, be the one to toss out the first question. The person who answers will be more apt to relax and

listen more carefully to what you have to say when it's your turn, since the ice has been broken, so to speak. It helps to have your basic questions and comments committed to memory.

Begin with the same kind of small talk that you might have at a purely social gathering. Comment casually on the food, perhaps, or an interesting article of clothing that someone is wearing.

Then you can ask about what he or she does for a living, or background. It's an old trick, but try to use the other person's name once or twice during your conversation. People

like to hear their names and at the same time it will help you remember it.