How Can I Convince My Partner to Get a Hearing Test?

James Yates Facebook Twitter LinkedIn I’ve noticed my partner can’t hear very well, both at home and when we’re out. When I indicate concern, he just says, “You’re mumbling.” How can I

convince him to get tested?

I’d begin by asking your partner if he hears other people clearly. If he responds with something like “Yes, I go to the office all day and hear everyone else,” then maybe he really can’t

hear you when you’re talking. There are some people who really do mumble or are what I call “low talkers.” And sometimes at home, we try to talk to someone in another room and they aren’t

listening. It’s a two-way street. If somebody says, “My partner cannot hear me,” there are things that both of you can do to fix that.

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I suggest you try engaging intentionally. By that, I mean to look your partner in the eyes and be clear with your message. This is a technique my wife and I use. For example, she’ll say

“Adam, I have something important to tell you.” Now she’s got my attention and continues. “We have dinner tomorrow night at 7 p.m. You cannot be late.” I’ll say, “All right. I’ve heard you.”

AARP members can take the National Hearing Test for free once a year. The National Hearing Test is an independent and scientifically validated hearing screen test developed with funding from

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